Wedding Stationery – what does this consist of and do I need it?


Which wedding stationery should you choose, and is it needed?... There is no right or wrong answer to this question. Wedding stationery is a personal preference and for many couples, can be a great way to help personalise their wedding day/celebration for themselves and their guests, creating that extra bespoke and personal touch. Wedding stationery can consist of a variety of different items and decorations and is not limited to just main wedding invitation cards. Here we guide you through some of the most popular types of stationery our couples tend to opt for.

Save the date cards:

These are popular and highly recommended for couples who plan their wedding several months (or even years!) in advance, as it is a good way to get the date out quickly to guests, without needing much information about the day itself. These typically do not contain a lot of information; however, they can be as detailed as you would like. Sending out ‘Save the Date’ cards are ideal as soon as you know your date and have possibly secured it, i.e. with your preferred venue booked.

The Main Wedding Invitation:

These are the formal invitations that hold most, if not all, of the key details of the day/event/celebration itself. We advise these to be sent out to guests, preferably, at least six months before the wedding and usually contain more specific details, such as timings of the day, location, dress code, dietaries, RSVPs, etc. If you have already sent out a ‘Save the Date’, then you may have more flexibility on the time frame to get these out, but the sooner the better, so that you can give your guests plenty of time to respond and plan for your special day! 

Bridal shower / Groom’s stag/ Rehearsal dinner:

Some couples also opt to have separate Evening invitations (different dates/timings or locations) for other celebrations surrounding the wedding day itself and for those guests who may not be invited to the whole day’s events.

On the Day stationery:

Examples of these include items such as table menu cards, guest name table cards, table plan(s) and/or decorative table favours that are unique to each guest. These are ideal if you have a particular wedding theme in mind that you can incorporate into these items, or if you are looking for that more personalised, wow-factor experience for your guests.

Post-wedding - Thank you cards:

These are usually sent out immediately or a few weeks after the wedding day has taken place. This is a popular option as many couples enjoy writing a personalised message, thanking guests for their gifts and for helping to celebrate their special day!  

At ‘Love Lydia’, one of the support services we offer is in assisting you with the organisation of your wedding stationery by liaising with the various supplier(s) to proof-read the designs and also make suitable suggestions which complement your wedding theme vision. If you are planning your wedding and are in search for advice, guidance and, or general support with any aspect of your wedding journey/ please email us at to see how we can best assist you! 

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LOVE ~ As we round off another year, we thank our amazing in-house team, our professional Partners and supplier friends, our followers and especially you - the most fabulous couples and clients whom have entrusted us and made our job, the very best in the world! 

We are also immensely proud of our achievements this year. Despite the hardships and challenges we have all faced, based on real feedback and testimonials from our clients, we’ve created some of the most treasured life-long memories and precious life-moments for you, which has brought us so much joy!

To be recognised and awarded the ‘Best Global Wedding & Event Planner 2021’ by #CorporateVision in the highly-regarded ‘Global Business Awards’, has also topped the year for us and is a professional highlight for which we are immensely proud. 

We now face 2022 with excitement and anticipation for some very epic weddings and events that we are creating for our amazing clients. 

Thank you once again for being on this journey with us, and as they say, ‘the best is yet to come’!

Lydia x 🥂

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It’s official - again!! Thank you #CorporateVision. 

As our busy 2021 comes to a close, we look back at our challenges and our successes and thank our amazing clients especially, whom we are eternally grateful for and who make this kind of accolade possible and the challenges even more worthwhile. 

None of this would be possible either, without our dedicated team who work tirelessly, often very much behind the scenes, as well as client-facing, to bring together the timeless, seamless, elegant events that we are very much renowned for. 

Thank you, Team Love Lydia, you’re brilliant! This is for you. 💫

In a year which was so very hard for our beloved industry, we are delighted to receive this highly-acclaimed Award. 

Those that know us, will know, @lovelydiauk are not just about weddings! We are very proud that our clients keep coming back - and they do - entrusting us with creating some incredible events for their corporate world, too:


The press release reads: 

“As we continue to work through the pandemic and fragile economy, it seems more important than ever to recognise the achievements of those facing these challenges head-on. 

The Global Business Awards recognise the tireless efforts of hardworking individuals and firms across the scope of the business world, in all industries and regions. 

The Global Business Awards have always recognised the best of the best, and this year is no exception”. 

Very much looking forward to sharing with you and all our couples, many more beautiful highlights in 2022.

I am overjoyed, thank you all for your on-going support!

Lydia x

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I hired Lydia as my wedding coordinator for my wedding in Sardinia. I had to take her with me as there was no one better in my opinion. I have to say that Lydia has such a variety of skills and gives 110% effort into everything she does. Lydia was available to me day and night and nothing I asked for was too much trouble. Lydia treated my wedding like it was her own and wanted to make sure everything was as perfect as it could be for me. My family and friends have said it was the best wedding they had ever been too!

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As the groom with an amazingly organised wife I was originally against using a wedding planner but I’m not ashamed to admit I was wrong. Lydia was absolutely amazing. Not only did she help get our dream venue on the day that we wanted, she was brilliant all throughout the whole process. Constantly in contact and not mention on the actual day of the wedding how amazingly organised and professional she was. Liaising between all parties involved and keeping everything running smoothly.

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Just to say a belated thank you for all your kind help throughout our wedding preparations. Your attention to detail and flexibility helped us to create the most perfect day of our lives. We had an incredible day making so many treasured memories. It was quite exhausting to be honest (!) but you took a lot of pressure off us which was super. Thank you again, best wishes.

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